He claims that he was dropped from the team because he is gay but the team coach denies the charge but did not explain why he was excluded. Then, without a sliver of judgment or skipping a beat, my friends told me that I’d probably be fine on a date as long as I just had a good time and just was comfortable being myself.”Ībrahm Devine is a university swimmer who used to be a member of the Stanford University swim team and was the NCAA Champion in the 400 individual medley. That I’d probably be a nervous wreck and ruin it. I casually said that I had never been on a date with a guy before and I was kind of scared of it. Here’s what he wrote: “One day, we were all hanging out and the topic of relationships came up in conversation. His teammates were, apparently very supportive.